Spouses, who do you choose?

My first spouse was Leah.
So far I've married Leah, Shane, Maru, Elliot, Harvey and Sebastian.
I really enjoyed being married to Elliot since he kept working and even went away on tour. Writing you letters telling you about his travels.
Before I thought it was disappointing that after marrying, the spouse just stayed home. Giving up on most hobbies and work.
That seem to have been fixed though. Because I remember Harvey going to the clinic to work in a later save.
But who am I going to marry in this save?

Who was your first spouse?
And more importantly: Who is your favorite?