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Anyone have a peritoneal pull through?
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 7mo ago 100%

    You're not likely to have the energy to do anything beyond lounging around for at least a week or two, I'd plan on taking at least a month off work.

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  • getting a blahaj, name ideas please
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 10mo ago 100%

    Blåhaj

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  • Question about switching to pills
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 10mo ago 100%

    Pretty much.

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  • What's the oldest piece of tech you still have running?
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 10mo ago 100%

    It's either my alarm clock or 5.1 speakers, both of which would be somewhere over 20 years old.

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  • What woukd you like in a Trans Healthcare Program?
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    Follow international medical guidelines (i.e. WPATHv8) as a baseline, actually listen to trans people, and be willing to deviate based on patient need.

    Have the trans community involved in governance in a non-tokenestic way, e.g. seats on the board.

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  • Does anyone have a habbit of deadnaming themselves in their head
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    Took me maybe a year to fully stop doing.

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  • On Self-Diagnosis
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 83%

    It varies in practice. Most people I see using identify, including many trans people, are well-intentioned and think it's the preferred polite language without thinking too hard on the implications of it.

    However there are definitely anti-trans people who will use it pejoratively, which I presume is where that wording originated.

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  • Our son's first day at the beach!!
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    He longs for the ocean.

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  • Thoughts on pills vs injections
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    Testosterone can convert to estradiol via aromatase, however there's no metabolic pathway in the other direction.

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  • Just started Strattera. I feel superhuman, but have some questions about the side effects.
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    For me I noticed minor benefits after 4 days, and it took about 2 weeks for it to more fully kick in.

    Personally the other side effects ended up with me going off it. The focus benefits stayed, though the low mood it turned out it was causing took 3 weeks to go away after I stopped.

    my male genitals are not working well

    This is a common side effect.

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  • Taking HRT without needles?
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    For estradiol pills, patches, and gel are your options if you can't do needles.

    Pills aren't recommended for over 45s or those with a history of blood clots, due to increased risk of blood clots.

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  • People who take atomoxetine, how did it improve your life?
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    When I previously looked into that, there's no literature on taking both. However I hear for some people that guanfacine alone is sufficient.

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  • People who take atomoxetine, how did it improve your life?
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    When I was on it I found it helped with distraction, but not task initiation, and the various dosages made no difference. Given that and some of the side effects I ended up going off it.

    Guanfacine handled the task initiation for me, but not the distraction.

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    Transfem 1y ago
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    Looking for information
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    I think I read something about her sister handling it now.

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  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    For pre-op http://fuckingtranswomen.org/ is generally what is recommended.

    Unfortunately she passed away before writing the post-op version.

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  • Suggestions for cartoons
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    Nimona and there's a bit in The Legend of Korra.

    For anime there's Wandering Son (trans), Yuri on Ice (gay, didn't see the hype myself), and I'm currently working through S1 of Mobile Suit Gundam: The Witch from Mercury which my housemate and I refer to as Space Lesbians - though technically its more bi. I watch subs, so can't comment on dubs.

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  • Is it normal to misgender yourself?
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    Yes, it took me maybe 6-12 months after I was out to stop doing it.

    Still happens rarely, usually for phrases that are gendered that I'd not be using often.

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  • FOSS Voice Training
  • BlueSharkEnjoyer BlueSharkEnjoyer 1y ago 100%

    https://friture.org/ is the one I've been using.

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  • Description: A small Blåhaj in a hospital bed. He is drinking from a glass of water on a bedside table though a straw.

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    Image Description: A Zoladex injection is being administered to a small cat plushy wearing a blåhaj costume, by a larger version of itself which is also wearing a non-binary scarf. The Zoladex is almost as thick as the smaller blåhaj's arm.

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